Why We Choose the Bear: An Exploration of Strength, Safety, and Symbolism

When danger can appear in the most unexpected places, the question of where and how we find safety becomes deeply personal, touching on our fears, strengths, and shared experiences. We Choose The Bear, a new anthology I have co-written with Kim Larkin, invites readers to explore these themes through a powerful collection of stories, essays, poems, and artworks that challenge traditional ideas about power and protection.

BUY We Choose The Bear

At first glance, the title may evoke images of wild, untamed nature—perhaps a fierce bear stalking through the forest. But this anthology flips the script, using the bear as a symbol of safety rather than fear. The inspiration behind the book is rooted in a provocative and poignant question: Why do many women and marginalized individuals feel safer encountering a bear in the woods than a man? This question isn’t just rhetorical; it’s a lens through which the authors examine the complex dynamics of violence, trust, and survival.

Byte-Sized Book Banter Curious Questions Considered Podcast with Iris and Axil. Episode on “We Choose The Bear” book.

We Choose The Bear was created during significant celestial events in 2024, a year marked by both cosmic and cultural shifts. The anthology captures this moment in time, weaving together personal narratives, mythological themes, and cultural insights to form a rich tapestry of experiences. Each piece in the collection adds a unique thread, offering readers a diverse array of perspectives on what it means to find strength in vulnerability, to reclaim power in the face of oppression, and to redefine safety on one’s own terms.

The bear, traditionally seen as a symbol of raw, untamed power, becomes in this anthology a protector. The contributors explore this symbolism through various lenses—some stories draw from ancient myths, where bears were revered as sacred protectors; others offer contemporary narratives that reflect the lived experiences of women today, navigating a world that can often feel hostile and unpredictable.

But We Choose The Bear is more than just a collection of stories; it’s a call to action. The anthology doesn’t shy away from the harsh realities of violence and fear, but it also doesn’t leave the reader in despair. Instead, it offers a path forward, one that is rooted in solidarity, resilience, and the power of reclaiming one’s own narrative. It’s a book that speaks to the heart of what it means to be human—vulnerable yet strong, fearful yet courageous.

As you turn the pages of We Choose The Bear, you’ll find yourself drawn into a world where the boundaries between myth and reality blur, where the woods offers not just danger, but also refuge. The stories and essays will challenge you to think differently about power and protection, while the poems and artworks will leave a lasting impression, inviting you to reflect on your own experiences and beliefs.

Whether you are a seasoned reader of feminist literature, someone seeking to understand the complexities of violence and safety, a fan of art or simply a lover of thought-provoking stories, We Choose The Bear has something to offer. It’s a book that stays with you, sparking conversations and inspiring action long after you’ve finished reading.

In the end, We Choose The Bear asks us all to consider where we find our strength and how we can create a safer, more equitable world. It’s a question that resonates deeply in today’s society, and one that this anthology answers with both honesty and hope.

We Choose The Bear is available now online. Don’t miss your chance to experience this powerful and timely collection. Read it, share it, and join the conversation.

BUY We Choose The Bear

BUY We Choose The Bear

Build Cutoms GPTs

First, what is a GPT? Generative Pre-trained Transformer, which is a type of artificial intelligence (AI). It’s a family of large language models (LLMs). The cool thing about GPTs is you can very easily build your own custom bots to do things for you.

There’s been a big update:

Any ChatGPT user can now use all custom GPTs. It used to be only subscribers could use each other’s GPTs. Now with Free 4.o anyone can use Chat GPT and use the Open AI GPT Directory to find GPTs.

Visual of the GPT Directory (above)

Only paid subscribers can build them at this time, but everyone can access them now. I have many GPTs; some are public, and some are not. I have posted some of my public GPTs on my Linktr.ee if you fancy taking any of them for a spin. If you are a subscriber and haven’t built a custom GPT yet – get on it!

If you need support – jump to this video series called Custom GPTs with Friends.

The Rise of Secret Cyborgs

I have been hanging out in a lot of Generative AI (artificial intelligence) play spaces with people who are interested in and messing around with the tools. I noticed a compelling phenomenon – the rise of ‘secret cyborgs’ in workplaces. After Ethan Mollak introduced the concept through his article “Detecting the Secret Cyborg.”  These individuals aren’t entities in sci-fi stories but everyday professionals who are silently integrating artificial intelligence (AI) into their work. They represent a grassroots movement, a quiet yet significant revolution in how we approach productivity, creativity, and problem-solving in our professional lives.

This trend is not just about individual exploration or silent revolution. It’s a crucial wake-up call for organizational leaders and businesses. There’s an immense opportunity here to transform the workplace narrative around AI. Instead of viewing AI with apprehension, businesses can adopt a culture that supports and encourages AI exploration. This shift can transform secretive individual experimentation into a collaborative, innovative movement that benefits the entire organization.

The ‘secret cyborgs’ among us are potential vanguards of a new era in the workforce, where the integration of human intelligence and AI leads to unprecedented levels of efficiency, creativity, and problem-solving. Their story is a call to action for all of us in business to embrace AI with curiosity and openness, recognizing its potential as a transformative tool for human advancement.

As we navigate this exciting and uncharted territory, the key lies in fostering a culture where AI is not just accepted but actively integrated into our collective quest for innovation and excellence. Let’s embrace this change, leveraging AI to enhance our human potential and pave the way for a future where technology and creativity go hand in hand in shaping the next frontier of business success.

If you are interested in tips for leaders, I co-wrote this piece with my friend Shannon Mullen O’Keefe of The Museum of Ideas called:

How to Let the Secret Cyborgs Out: 7 Ideas for Leaders