The Time I Embodied Dolly

When I was ten years old, living with my family in a Motel 6 in Texas, Halloween became a much bigger deal than it probably should have been.

I wanted a real costume. The kind the other kids at school had. Annie wigs. Garfield whiskers. Strawberry Shortcake everything.

We didn’t have the money for any of that.

What I did have was an older sister with an idea, a borrowed ruffled dress, a grey thrift-store wig, a lot of makeup and, eventually, two strategically placed balloons.

And just like that, I became Dolly Parton.

Or at least ten-year-old me was completely convinced I had.

What I remember most now isn’t really the costume. It’s the Motel 6. It’s my sister showing up early to help me get ready. It’s my dad finding a wig at a thrift store on his lunch break. It’s searching the room for 35 cents for the bus. It’s trick-or-treating door to door among people who weren’t expecting children to show up at all.

And it’s a group of waitresses at the motel diner giving my brother and me cobbler and ice cream because they didn’t have any Halloween candy.

Years ago, I wrote that memory down and called it “Dolly at the Motel.”

With Dolly Parton’s passing this week, I found myself thinking about that story again and about what Dolly represented to a ten-year-old girl who didn’t have much but had absolutely no shortage of imagination.

So I pulled the piece back out.

It’s funny. It’s uncomfortable in places. It’s very much a story about my childhood. And somewhere inside all of that, it’s also about creativity, pride, family and figuring out how to make something spectacular out of whatever happens to be lying around.

You can read the full story, Dolly at the Motel, on my Substack.

Cyndi Coon is a time traveler and rule-bender, nerding out for good using data, science and curious questions as an Applied Futurist, author, creative, ecosystem builder, facilitator, producer, researcher, storyteller and publisher for: governments, the military, higher education, private partnerships, enterprise, and industry. Cyndi is the Founder and Principal Futurist at Applied Futures Lab, Founder of Laboratory5, and Co-founder of Arizona State University’s Threatcasting Lab and is the co-founder at Threatcasting.ai. Cyndi is the author of Future AI Mindset, co-author of Threatcasting (2021), Futurecasting (2026) and the author of numerous reports, articles and book chapters. Founder and Publisher at Turkey Hill Press.

She is an Affiliate at the Center for Emergency Management & Homeland Security. Chief Media Officer for Content Evolution. She leads the i4j (global innovation for jobs workforce) and Coolabilities communities, promoting inclusive and forward-thinking solutions. She is a Web 3 advisor. Connect with Cyndi Linktree 

Listen In Nature

Many children in this country have lost all understanding that they are part of nature and are connected to nature.We live so fearfully that children will be nabbed or will get hurt that we keep them inside and away from danger. But ultimately we are harming them far worse by robbing them of the experiences that can only be found outside in nature.

“To become stronger adults, kids need to be outside and allow their bodies to do what they’ve been designed for from the beginning. – Kacie Flegal, a chiropractor in Ashland, Ore., who specializes in pediatrics.

In college I studied Ornithology because I was obsessed with the film maker Peter Greenaway. His film A Walk Through H: The Reincarnation of an Ornithologist change my view of birds, film making and visual experiences.

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Some of Greenaway’s other best-known films include:  The Draughtsman’s Contract (1982), A Zed & Two Noughts (1985), The Belly of an Architect (1987), Drowning by Numbers (1988), and his most successful (and controversial) film, The Cook, the Thief, His Wife & Her Lover (1989) also include references to Ornithology, birds and nature.

As a parent this has me thinking about sharing a love for birds with my children and if I want to get them outside to listen more I can start with the sound of various songbirds. Doing this can really can teach a child about the diversity of the natural world.

Once you spend time outside listing for birds why not get creative?  Set up an outdoor creativity studio where you can build and make things! Go grab these Free plans to build a birdhouse for your own back yard from Ana White

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ADDED BONUS:

While building your bird house listen to some classic music inspired by birds.

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